Friday, December 5, 2008

MUMBAI

Mumbai lies bleeding again,
Ah me, she has been struck
By men of satanic design,
Senseless scary spectres,
In a horrible dance of terror.

She had seen her children die
In riots, blasts and fire,
They are again mowed down
Now in a nightmare
By wickedness unparalleled,
Devilish and devious.

Beautiful, bejeweled and demure
She made it always sure
That her children never had to suffer
And that they laughed aloud
Through summer, rain and cold,
Whether they huddled in huts,
Slept on littered pavements,
Were stacked like sardines
In streaking trains, clad in sweat,
Or ensconced in comfort
On Malabar, Pali, Cumbala Hills.

Her lap was home
For all those who came
From distant lands
Indian and abroad,
She was home for the persecuted
From all over the globe,
A cultured madam to the sailors,
Who set foot on her shores,
In their quest for gold and scents,
Gems, wisdom and condiments.

Her children were of diverse hue
Like a bird’s colourful plume,
Like a rainbow on Arabian Sea
In the glitter of monsoon eve.

In you were blended, dear Mumbai,
Passion, culture, spice of life,
Hidden beneath your wealth and posh
Indeed was an unseen bond
That tied us rich and poor
All alike like gleaming gems
In a necklace of Indianness,
A marvel as ancient as Ganges
And our sacred unwritten scriptures.

We walked your streets
Like in a dream
As do romantic leads
In fairy-tales feathery light
Played on our silver-screens.
Our goals were sure,
Our eyes azure,
We never had time for care,
Your embrace was so secure.

Temple, church and mosque we built
Together in one-nation spirit.
We didn’t think even the least
Varied Gods in them we placed,
For something sacred from our past
Told us we were never apart.

We cackled like Diwali crackers
As we feasted Ramadan nights,
We smiled like Christmas morn,
We were always one and one.

Alas, gone are those golden days
Of trust, friendship, healthy sport.
Ours now is a miserable lot
Full of distrust, venomous thought.

Laughter and felicity we forgot,
Distraught we are by the thought:
“The man next doors has a scheming look,
Looks askance, he’s a crook,
Oh God, he has a different God,
Time now I preserved mine dear Lord”.

We lost our sleep, we lost our mirth,
We lost our soul of Indianness,
We built walls and barbed their tops
Mounting on them barking guns.

Indians died and in their place,
Hindus, Muslims, Christians rose,
Language split our souls apart,
For sons of the soil we all fought.

Down we sank - a diseased nation
Fertile ground for contagion.
Misguided religion, death and terror,
Our enemies have them without any measure.

They are indeed a vilely lot,
Who place bombs in market hearts,
Desecrate all our holy hearths,
Shoot and kill us sans any thought.

Drunk of political power, drained of wit,
Leaders of the masses wilt,
Cringing for crumbs, alms and favour
On long corridors of power,
Puppets moved by perpetrators
Of crimes, arson, riots, who conspire
To undermine what remains
Of our humane Indianness
And our strides in sciences
All the way up to the Moon’s surface.

Impotent we stand and witness
The gruesome terror senseless,
A volcanic rage fumes inside
As poor Mumbai bleeds and wails
Her sons fall in acts of bravery
Never heard before in history
Sanguine buds in a sacrificial pit
In the darkness of November nights.

A nation cries aloud to heavens
To send her a saviour son,
Alas! in the pitch darkness around
Will she ever find that dear one?

Will her prayers ever be heard?
Will he come half-clad,
With a disarming smile, bespectacled,
Holding a walking stick, of concrete will,
Speaking a language of peace?
Or will he be seen under a tree
With a message to set us free
In the Kingdom of our Indianness
Of Love’s Universal Consciousness?

OM SHANTIH, SHANTIH, SHANTIHI

Madathil Nair

Tuesday, November 25, 2008

A PRAYER TO BHAGAWAN RAMANA MAHARSHI

Oh, brilliant eyes!
Yet to blossom smile!
Visage profoundly serene!
Show me the way sublime.

Out of this mesh much knotted,
In which I am woefully trapped,
Made of mind and intellect
Understanding and what not,

Of teachers by whom I aver,
Of books I don’t close ever,
Of a body demanding care,
Of senses gone haywire.

I know all these to be
Not me, because I do see.
Yet, I know not the seeing me,
For blind is my inner eye.

“All you know is you are not,
What knows is you” I am taught
"Knowing this much will suffice
You then are self-realized".

“A mere understanding, isn’t this?”
I question losing all my wits.
“Yes, it is so by all the means,
It does take place in the mind”.

“Isn’t mind in knowing?” I ask
“So what?” “The wise does think” they remark
“The wise does act, the wise does read,
The wise does enjoy the food he eats”.

“Granted all that” I concede
“The wise knows not that he reads,
That he acts and that he eats,
The way we do so incomplete”.

Didn’t our Sage say the wise is like
One in himself fast asleep
On a shaky cart on potholed track
Knowing not the shocking creaks.

My soulful plea therefore Lord Ramana,
Dear Sage of Holy Arunachala!
Cast your kind glance upon me
Truth of “Who am I?” so I see.

So I realize what it is like
Being in this tumultuous sea
Knowing and yet knowing not
Knowing all as me in me.

Soaring up and up the sky
Wingless, mindless, ever-free,
Unbridled by whims of intellect,
Unburdened by notions pet,

In the sky of Pure Being
To which Your eyes beckon,
To the beauty of spaceless expanse,
Where Your smile shines and awakens.

ramaNArpaNaM astu

Saturday, September 6, 2008

Amrita Kitchen Onam Catering

AUM NAMASIVAYA !!!


We are happy to inform all of you that Amrita Kitchen has secured
Two ONA Sadhya orders, catering for about 1000 people. Another
Order for about 500 people is also expected with in this week. The
Commitment, dedication, selfless service and surrender to Amma by
Our Amrita kitchen Team is paying off.
This indeed is a challenging task and our kitchen team under the able
Guidance of Nirmalaji and Shiva Kumar has taken it Up in all earnest and enthusiasm. It becomes our duty to support them morally, physically, and financially. I have a humble prayer to each and every one of you to come forward and take this big task as our collective responsibility and make it a success.
Let us all contribute to the best of our ability by sponsoring different
Items; be it vegetables, or grocery,rice,sugar,milk ,bananaleaves etc so that maximum amount can be sent for the Amritakuteeram project .We have made a list of the required items for this Onam feast and the copies of it will be distributed amongst you. Kindly fill it up and tick the item you would like to sponsor either wholly or by part and return the same with your contributions if possible today itself. You may also hand over the same to the area coordinators by the next weekly Bhajan. We would also require volunteers to transport utensils, food and people and all other associated works. The respective area coordinators will be contacting you shortly for the same.

The first Onna sadhya is for Palghat Pravasi Association – Palpak on the 1st of October and the second one is for Amicos on the 10th of October, The third awaiting confirmation is for NAFO Kuwait.we are very thankful to these organizations for giving us this opportunity.We are ever grateful to Malhotra family for all the support and assistance,
For all clarifications please contact Mrs,Nirmala Narayanan.The proceeds from this as you all know will go to AMMAS Amritakuteeram project, Let us all pray Amma for her grace , blessings and success of Our endeavor.

Swamiji when he visited last time had instructed us to practice IAM Technique; a meditation technique initiated by Amma which is catching up all over the world . Swamiji also Wished that we popularize this among the like minded people here.Please contact Narayananji for all information regarding this.

Aum Amriteswaryai Namah !!!


Wednesday, September 3, 2008

Which Planet do You Belong???

I belonged once to the Planet Earth,
Where millions of people toiled day and night,
To earn their bread, to raise their children,
But lived in agony, survived their days in fright.

The people there start their days, with a cup of tea
And a peril which they can stumble upon every moment
None has time for their friends, family or even the loved ones
Coz life is more of a win or fail, just a mere tournament.

As dawn sets, they scamper to catch the bus of success,
& Twilight is a preparation desk, trying to disclose tomorrow’s mystery,
Little are they conscious about what they can do today,
To make the world a better place, to learn from their history.

I was often lost and baffled not knowing where to go,
What, when, why, how, searching for the perfect answer within,
On and on I traveled, just like anyone in this chaotic planet,
Searching for a smile, a helping hand, and fearless days to live in.

But one blessed day I came across a planet which I call ‘Amma’,
Where I was welcomed with smiling faces and utmost care,
People here had just one goal, just one dream,
To serve selflessly, to help the needy and those in despair.

Living in the present, they have answers to all tribulations,
I too experienced the energy, the gusto, the harmony and the passion,
Sooner did I forgot the ‘I’, ‘Me’ and ‘Myself’,
I crave now, not to unfurl my future, but to melt into ‘Her’ compassion.

Here too people are gripped in their daily routine duties,
But never are they ‘too busy’, to halt a minute and take a look around.
To spend a little time with the animals, plants and oceans,
Eagerly waiting somewhere to be noticed, to be caressed or even found.

At last I am awake, no more in my deep slumber,
As I learnt here, the sun does shine on the dark side of the moon.
My aim now is nothing but simple, meaningful and conscious living
And I thank ‘Her’ alone for being my Mother, my teacher and my boon!

So which planet do you belong???... It’s never late,
Jump into your rocket ship, and travel to planet ‘Amma’,
Here you will no longer ponder over your past,
Here you will no longer wonder about the future,
Here you will live ‘today’ and live it fully,
Here you will know to smile, sing and dance joyfully.
So welcome to Planet ‘Amma’!

-Rashmi Gopal

Thursday, May 1, 2008

INTEGRATED AMRITA MEDITATION TECHNIQUE




A Meditation Technique for Modern Needs.


The IAM - Integrated Amrita Meditation Technique® is a powerful way to reconnect with our real center, our inner Self, and thereby experience true joy and peace in life. Born out of Amma's deep resolve for our spiritual enhancement, this technique, when practiced with dedication, is designed to bring about integration in our lives - an integration of body, mind, intellect and heart.

IAM is a combination of yoga, pranayama and meditation that takes just 20 minutes a day.* The technique is a synthesis of traditional, time-tested methods suited for the current mental conditions, time-constraints and needs of modern man.


To Know more about the technique visit
http://www.iam-meditation.org/
IAM—Integrated Amrita Meditation Technique®Copyright © M.A. Math All rights reserved.

The Course itself is administered free to participants. However, the costs of conducting the course Hall Rent, Refreshments etc shall be shared by the participants.
Registration shall close with the 100th applicant and the cost is expected to be around KD 7/- per participant.
Venue: Al Mujan Hall, Hotel Crown Plaza
Time: 7AM to 9-30 AM (Assemble at 6-45AM)
Age Group : 19 Yrs and Above
Requisition for Registration may be sent to ammakuwait@yahoo.com
Details required - Name, Age, e-mail address.


Special sessions for Children in age groups
10 to 14 years (Juniors)
15to 18 years (Seniors)
for Online Registration go to:
http://www.indiansinkuwait.com/AIM/index.htm



Sunday, April 27, 2008

INTEGRATED AMRITA MEDITATION TECHNIQUE

Aum Amriteswaryai Namah

An Introduction to IAM – Integrated Meditation Technique®
Meditation is the ancient art of mental mastery. The way we perceive the world around us completely depends on our mind. In our search for happiness, we essentially have two options—modify the entire world so that everything turns out exactly the way we want it to or modify our mind so that we are able to be happy, content and peaceful, regardless of what happens in the external world. The former is obviously impossible. We have very little control over our external world. The only hope for happiness lies in controlling the inner world. Meditation is a key element in this process.
Amma, the Spiritual Master who synthesized IAM – Integrated Amrita Meditation Technique®, says, “Remote control of the mind should rest firmly in the palm of one’s hand.” Imagine one with such mental control. For him, emotions, ideas and memories are at his beck and call. If anger comes, he can change the channel. The same with jealousy and greed. He can recall any past event, like hitting rewind on the DVD player. If he wants ideas, he only need turn to the “idea channel” and a flow of creative ideas will come forth. No more staring at the blank screen of writer’s block. Total and complete mental control—this is what we are after.
The mind is a machine. But it is completely up to us to maintain that machine properly—treat it properly, get it serviced when necessary, keep it in general good working order. Only then will we be able to get the maximum potential out of it. We should also know how to turn the machine off! This sadly has become a lost art and the very reason we see so many people around us blowing fuses. Meditation is our daily mental maintenance system.
Through focusing on objects, sounds and sensation during meditation, our power of concentration will increase. Practicing observing our mental and vital functions, we will gain in awareness. Relaxing the mind, will create a stress free mind. Expanding our concept of our self in meditation will similarly expand our thinking in general.
Improved power of concentration, relaxation, expansive thinking and awareness are the basic benefits of IAM Tech®. These constitute a general refinement of the mind. How one uses that refined mind is completely up to each individual. A painter may use his refined mind to open up the well of ideas within him and apply them on a canvas. A CEO may use them to manage his company better, make shrewder business moves and relax more deeply on holidays. A soldier may use his refined mind to maintain mental equipoise in battle. A monk may use his refined mind to contemplate on the nature of his soul. The possibilities are endless and completely up to the practitioner.



Om Lokah Samasthah Sukhino Bhavantu

Friday, April 25, 2008

SAMPOOJYA SWAMIJI'S KUWAIT PROGRAM







Om Amriteswaryai Namaha !!!

AMMA KUWAIT
Humbly announce the visit of
“Poojya Swamiji Amritaswarupananda Puri”
Senior Disciple of Shri Mata Amritanandamayi Devi and
Vice-Chairman of Mata Amritanandamayi Math and Charitable Trust
to Kuwait




Program
Wednesday 7th May 2008, 7 to 9-30 PM
Venue Indian Community Girls School Auditorium, Salmiya
Prize Distribution for the winners of Pratibha 2008 Talent Hunt
Cultural Program by Amrita Balakendram Children
Talk and Bhajan by Poojya Swamiji
.
His Excellency, The Ambassador of India will be the Guest of Honour

Thursday, 8th May 2008, 6-30 to 10-00 PM
Venue Indian Educational School (Bharathiya Vidya Bhavan) Abbassiya
Cultural Programs by Amrita Balakendram Children
Talk and Bhajan by Poojya Swamiji


Poojya Swami Amritaswarupananda Puri is a senior disciple of Shri. Mata Amritanandamayi Devi, popularly known as AMMA, world renowned social reformer and philanthropist.
Swamiji came under AMMA’s tutelage in 1979 and under AMMA’s guidance, Swamiji obtained his Masters Degree in Philosophy.
Swamiji has had the unique opportunity to be with AMMA and travel all over the world with her ever since.
For over 2 decades Swamiji have been accompanying AMMA on all world tours and witness her boundless love and compassion conquer the whole world.
Swamiji has shared his experiences with AMMA through his very popular work titled “Awaken Children” in 9 volumes. As the Vice Chairman of Mata Amritanandamayi Math & Charitable Trust, Swamiji shoulders the responsibility of running Amma's various charitable projects, health and educational institutions including Amrita Institute of Medical Sciences and Research Center and Amrita Viswa Vidya Peetham; a Deemed University.
Swamiji is an excellent orator and his talks are rich with his experiences with Amma. Swamiji is also well known for his soul-stirring Bhajans.
The immensely successful international event "Amritavarsham 50" AMMA's 50th birthday celebrations, held at Cochin in 2003 brought together participants from 191 UN member countries was conceived by Poojya Swamiji and executed under his able leadership.
Swamiji also played a central role in Amma's historic visit to Dubai and Kuwait at the start of the new Millennium.
Since 1995 Swamiji has been visiting Middle East every year to spread Amma's Message of Universal Love and Compassion.
Mata Amritanandamayi Math & Charitable Trust, has its head office at Amritapuri located in Kollam district of Kerala State has branches all around the world. Under the guidance of AMMA, her holiness Shri Mata Amritanandamayi Devi, these branches have become centers of selfless service to mankind throughout the world cutting across barriers of nationality, race, caste, creed or religion.
To know more about AMMA and her mission, please visit http://www.amritapuri.org/ and http://www.amma.org/

Wednesday, April 23, 2008

BRAHMAN AND ISHWARA

Someone said:

QUOTE

"I would certainly agree with "Everything is the Self alone" but I would clarify this as: "everything is brahman" (sarvaM khalvidaM brahma). I have not come across a statement in the shruti which says 'sarvaM khalvidaM Ishvara'. My understanding of tattvamasi is 'I amThat', where That is Brahman; not Ishwara.”.

UNQUOTE

Hello there. Then what about 'IsAvAsyamidaM sarvaM' the first line and running theme of Isopanishad?

What about this statement by Shankara in Dakshinamurthi Stotram:

"He, whose eight-fold forms are the "Earth, Water, Fire, Air, Ether, Sun, Moon and Jeeva", and who manifests Himself as this universe of the movable and immovable objects - and besides which, the Supreme All-Pervading Lord, there exists nothing to those who reflect well upon ..... to Him, the Divine Teacher Sri Dakshinamoorthy, is this Prostration." (Translation by Sw. Chinamayanandaji)

Earth, Water and Air are representative of all that is solid, liquid and gas in creation; Fire is all that burns, Ether is space (time goes with it), Sun and Moon for all the galaxies, stars, planets and other heavenly bodies and interstellar matter, and Jeeva for all his internalizations and also all that is living which include all life forms in this universe that we know of and that we will infuture (I am including the possibility of extra-terrestrials!). That is sarvaM khalvidaM brahma or sarvaM khalvidaM Ishwara!

We need to understand the frequency at which our Vedanta teachers are communicating. Once, during a discussion on "pUrNamadaH...", Sw. Dayanandaji laughingly concluded: "What is mithyA? MithyA is satyaM". That statement shocked some of the traditionalists who stick to the very letter of the shruti.

We know that Swamiji was not going against the tenets of "pure Advaita". In fact, he was only expressing the all-encompassing message and nature of Advaita in his inimitable style. Advaita cannot be an an alienation. His views on Ishwara are therefore to be understood in that context.

If sarvamidaM (all this or this entire universe or all that is there in this universe) is brahman, then the rose is brahman, the diamond is brahman, the roach is brahman and wife is also brahman! There is nothing other than Brahman. BrahmaivedaM vishwaM.. (Mundaka Upanishad).

How can I relate to this, if I adamantly insist that Brahman is immutable, indefinable, ineffable, etc. etc.? The only way I can relate is to accept this multiplicity that confronts me as ONE AND THE SAME and operate in a manner that there is nothing other than that ONE.

Mundaka Upanishad effectively uses the spider-cobweb analogy to help us here. The material of the web is not different from the spider. The spider releases the web matter from itself and withdraws it into itself. This is the way the universe manifests from brahman and later goes into dissolution in the same brahman.

The immutable brahman of the shruti seen as manifesting as this universe is our Ishwara who pervades each and every atom of its multiplicity as Himself. This is what Isopanishad thunders!

So, when I do suryanamaskar in the morning, I am not saluting just a yellow star - an insignificant entity when compared to the other gigantic asterisms that glitter our skies. I am prostrating before Ishwara, the Lord of the Universe, who is none other than the Brahman of vedanta. When an ant or roach passes by, then that again is the Lord. Why each and every atom of my body and the trillions of microorganisms that inhabit it are verily the Lord himself. What remains other than Him? Nothing. He alone remains. Brahman alone remains. Ishwara alone remains. There is nothing other than Ishwara. That is Advaita - the way it is lived - not the way it is intellectually understood. Such living is a thrill, the pleasure of all pleasures.

Om Parashaktyai Namaha

Madathil Nair

Sunday, April 20, 2008

To Ma!

Sat and Ananda never are twain,
Chit and Ma are one and the same.
Ma, The Sweet, is sat-chinmayI,
The Truth that in Ananda shines.

Lullabying sleepy stars,
Walks She on the Milky Way,
Descends She on blossom-hearts,
As scent and nectar all the way.

Smiling as the moon-lit night,
Pouring mirth in sleeping buds,
Who then know when the morn does dawn
To smile back at the rising Sun.

She hides in musical notes
To render soul to song and dance
On the stage of creation, where
Star and dust play written parts.

In the beginning that never began,
In the end that never will end,
Dwells She, the Mother – The Majestic
Mistress of the Universe!

Mixing countless diverse hues,
Raising rainbows in the skies,
Singing in the rustling leaves,
Dwells She in our ears and eyes.

As ear of ear and eye of eye,
Kanaiya She is to seeing eyes!
Pranava She to those blessed
Hearing only Her anklet bells!

To forlorn windows in lonely nights
The soothing star She is!
The secret smile that always shines
Without change in changing scenes!

Vibrant pulse of waking life,
Silver light of dreamy plane,
Slumber's silent unknown heart,
Witness She in all the three.

Watching always all my acts,
Batting not an eyelash once,
Guard me, hold me, guide me Ma,
Through birth and death and brittle life.

Playing on my being's strings,
Seated on the pollen bed
Of my heart, Ma, You remain,
Smiling like a dawn of Spring.

Shining like the golden wick,
Inside me the silver lamp,
Light the world up that I see
Only You and nothing else.

Om Parasaktyai Namaha

PS: Approximate translation of a Malayalam poem which I had penned and offered toMata Amritanandamayi Devi when I had Her darshan in September 1992. I don't know what happened to the original. I saw Mother kissing it and then passing it on to one of Her ashramites.

Madathil Nair

FREE WILL

FREE WILL

Oh Teacher, you taught me
This phenomenal of mine
Is the result of ignorance,
Primal and beginningless.

Then you taught
I could, I needn’t
And I could differently.
Isn’t what you taught
Ignorance again,
Beloved Sage,
For it all is in the phenomenal?

Then, tell me, Sir,
Why all these intelligent brains,
Gray as well as green,
In our midst, do overtime,
To substantiate or refute,
A fallacy born of darkness absolute?

They do so every year,
Like pollen fever every spring.
No topic ever has attracted
So many colourful writings
So differently distracted.

Phenomenal is an appearance
You did thunder
In our yearning ears.
Isn’t free will seeming, Sir,
May I add a rejoinder?
Don’t take me a pretender.

A world seems to erupt
In all its myriad colours
Before my eyes
As I move as the Lord
Pulls the unseen strings.
A moppet show
Where I am nothing
Yet I think I have something!
Ignorance of the sublimest kind!

Sunday, April 13, 2008

Spiritual Discourse



Renowned Scholar and Scientist
Dr.Gopalakrishnan
(Indian Institute of Scietific Heritage)
will conduct a lucture
In ENGLISH
for Amma's Makkal in kuwait
on Friday 18th April 2008
3.30 P.M
At Vigy Auditorium, Abbassiya.
You are welcome with your friends and relatives

Tuesday, February 5, 2008

Amma's Advice..For Householders

Overcome Anger
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“Suppose you have a weakness of getting angry easily. Now, what you should do is this: Once you become normal again, go and sit in the family shrine room if you have one, or sit in solitude; then regret and repent your own anger and sincerely pray to your beloved deity or to Mother Nature, seeking help to get rid of it. Try to make your own mind aware of the bad outcome of anger. When you are angry with someone, you lose all your mental balance. Your discriminative power completely stops functioning. You say whatever comes into your mind and you act accordingly. You may even utter crude words at your own wife or children, or your own father or mother. Once you lose your discrimination you may even kill someone. By acting and thinking with anger you lose a lot of good energy. Become aware of this great truth, that these negative feelings will only pave the way for your own destruction, and sincerely try to put forth effort to overcome them.”
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“When you are in the midst of an upsetting situation, can you simply observe what is happening? Can you stop thinking that someone is insulting and abusing you? Can you forget that you are being treated unfairly and let go of the wish to do something about it? Don't be abusive. Don't react. Try to realise that the real problem is not what is happening, but how you are reacting to it. When you see that you are going to react negatively, at this point, pause. Stop talking. Say to your mind, 'No, don't say anything now. You will get a better opportunity to present the whole matter in a more effective way. But now you keep quiet for the time being.' During this pause, try to think of something positive, something elevating, something sweet, something that you consider unforgettable. Try to recall a pleasant event or memory. Focus all your energies, all your thoughts on that. If you can do this, you won't be bothered or angered by the ridiculous words and unbearable face of the other person.”
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“In due course, when you have learned to overcome these mildly provoking situations, you can slowly begin to test your experiment in more trying and serious situations. As you continue to practice, you will see that you are changing. And eventually, you will see that you cannot react anymore, that you can only respond. You will experience much more peace and joy in your marriage and in your family life in general. The change in your attitude and the patience that you show will also create a positive change in others.”
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“When your husband sees that you are not reacting anymore, when he realises that his anger and insults are no longer being accepted, that they are no longer affecting you, he will feel embarrassed. What happens when a warrior finds that his weapons are not powerful or effective anymore? He throws them away. Similarly, when your husband finds that his weapons, the words that he uses against you, are not hurting you anymore, he will give up and keep quiet. In addition, you will now be treating him with more love and care. This is a great gift.”
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Chant Your Mantra
“When your mind is restless, try to chant your mantra. If you seek solace in anything else, all will be lost. If you don't get peace of mind from one thing, you will look for something else. Failing that, you will again look for something else. You won't experience any peace at all. No peace will be experienced in anything. Whereas, if you remember God and chant your mantra, you will quickly become very calm and peaceful. Your mind will have the power to face any situation.”
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“Firmly fix the idea in your mind that only God is true and eternal. Chant your mantra while engaged in your work. Then there won't be any need for a special time to remember God. Your mind will always be focused on Him.”
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“The mind which is flying about in all directions should be gathered together. Then only will it become spiritually strong. The mind cannot be fixed on a single point in the beginning. It should be tuned by doing mantra japa continuously. All your attention should be only on that. Do you know what mantra japa can be compared to? In kindergarten we learn to write using a slate and to count using pearls. In this way the lessons will easily sink into the intellect. Similarly, we can get concentration through mantra japa. There are people who attained the goal merely by chanting a mantra. It is not always possible to meditate but mantra japa can be done irrespective of time or place.”
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Vasanas (Negative Tendencies)
“Family life allows us to conquer our vasanas. Don't drown in the vasanas; understand what they are and go beyond them. We will reach our goal only if we become completely detached from the vasanas. We feel satisfied after enjoying our fill of payasam, but a little later, we want twice as much. Once we understand the true nature of this yearning, the mind will not go after it. Would anyone touch the payasam if a lizard fell into it?”
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“When the vasanas pull us towards them, the mind will resist if it knows that they are not the source of real joy, and that they will only bring us sorrow. But this knowledge has to be firmly planted in the mind and intellect. Don't let your lives go to waste, children, by being slaves to your minds! Don't barter away a priceless jewel for a piece of candy. Our minds will quiet down if we stop giving as much importance to sensory pleasures as we do now.”

Wednesday, January 16, 2008

About "AMMA"...Scientists,Thinkers,writers etc

"I believe that [Amma] stands here in front of us, God's love in a human body."
Dr. Jane Goodallworld-renowned primatologist2001 Gandhi-King Award for Non-violence recipientGeneva, 7 October 2002
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"Amma is the embodiment of pure love. Her presence heals."Dr. Deepak Chopra, M.D.author of Ageless Body, Timeless Mind: The Quantum Alternative to Growing Old
"A type of force emanates from Her. I think it cannot be defined by our analysis."
Dr. Madhavan NairChairman of ISRO (Indian Space Research Organisation)at Amma's Bangalore Ashram, 21 February 2004
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"A society having only the government system, no matter how powerful and sincere, cannot survive for long without the solid base provided by spirituality. One plausible solution is to evolve a new universal religion. Now, only a vague outline can be speculated. Fortunately to have a glimpse of a sage of that universal religion, we have not to wait for some distant future. Sri Mata Amritanandamayi's life and work is a living example of universal love and service."
Dr. D.N. Srivastavasenior scientistBhabha Atomic Research Centre, Mumbai
"Amma symbolises the truth and beauty of life."Dr. Padma SubrahmanyamIndian classical dancerduring Amritavarsham50Cochin, Kerala, 24 September 2003
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"We all need heroes, people like Amma, who remind us of how great we can be when we've forgotten."
"I think Amma is truly doing more for women than any other being on earth."
Ms. Linda EvansAmerican actressduring Amritavarsham50Cochin, Kerala, 24 September 2003
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"When we go to Amma for darshan, we forget what is happening around us. When Amma hugs us, we feel it to be something special that we have never got from anyone else. Her love, smile, kiss and the way She talks to us are things I cannot describe. Her love is forever."
Dr. K.S. Fathima BeeviLecturer, Government College, Tripunithura, KeralaSyndicate Member, Mahatma Gandhi University, Kottayam, Keraladuring Amritavarsham50Cochin, 25 September 2003
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"In all my life I have not met a warmer personality than [Amma]. Even an agnostic like me had great difficulty in holding back my tears." Sri. Khushwant Singhauthor and journalistAmritapuri Visitor's DiaryAmritapuri, 1993
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"[Amma is] one of the most glorious lights to appear in the history of religion. Just her stamina—embracing these millions of people one by one, day after day, without a break, all over the world—is some kind of divine gift. No mere human resources could accomplish this."Dr. Timothy Conway, Ph.D.author of Women of Power & Grace
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"What I have seen Amma doing is way beyond what most are able to achieve in such a short time. She is actually touching the heart of the people. She is able to make everyone realise that it is one's duty to work for humanity." Sri. N.V.R. NathanDirector, IILM Institute for Higher Educationduring Amritavarsham50Cochin, 26 September 2003
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"Amma is playing a transformative and inspirational role to help people cross a lot of barriers of religion and caste so they can be spiritually uplifted."
Sri. Sanjay GuptaManaging DirectorDainik Jagran, a leading Hindi daily newspaperduring Amritavarsham50Cochin, 25 September 2003
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"For me Amma is the ideal. She is the yardstick. She is the measurement to which all of us [must hold ourselves], whether we are beginners on the spiritual path or matured seekers. She always shows that you can give more love, show more compassion. Amma is the greatest living saint on this planet. I met many Masters, but in Amma I see a combination of unconditional love and ferocious determination and an indomitable spirit. Her example is peerless."Andrew Cohenspiritual teacher and founder of the magazine What is Enlightenment?Barcelona, 13 July 2004

Monday, January 14, 2008

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!

Yesterday I turned sixty-one
And someone long forgotten
Sent me a mail wishing hundred and one,
An expression of habitual sentiment.

He knew I loved our Mother,
For he cared to attach Her snap.
Her lips were a bewitching smile,
Folded hands were soulful prayer
For us all who have no time for Her.

Viewed the picture, a glance sufficed,
Oh, my disc has no more space.
The mail found its way to trash,
Who has time for wishing farce?

Another day of dreary chores,
Frenzied phone calls, business talks,
Ceaseless standing on the toes
Back to PC at the close.

The old always guides.
I look for a document saved,
For help in having a new one made.
Don’t we always retrieve the buried!?

Lo! What could be this, a new file?
In ‘My Documents’ saved,
Without my knowledge?
Finger curiosly clicks.

The smile brightens the screen
Like the dawn of spring-time sheen,
Hands fold again to greet
A careless son so indiscrete.

For all I know I pressed “Delete”,
Nevertheless She refused to retreat.
At the bottom of our being, isn’t it,
“My Documents” - Her sacred retreat?

A tear-drop tiny grows and wells
In my erstwhile blinded eyes
To spark an insight so very bright
“A Mother never ever leaves Her kids”.

(Written on 2nd December 2007)

pUrNamadah pUrNamidaM Revisited

  • OM PARASAKTIAI NAMAHA

    PURNAMADAH PURNAMIDAM REVISTED

    INTRODUCTION

    The pUrNamadah verse, appearing at the end of this post, is the shAntipATa (prayer verse) with which IshAvAsyOpaniSad begins. It is familiar to all of us and is often chanted at the end of satsangs all over the world. However, we miss its profundity because that is the time we feel our pockets for the car keys in our hurry to reach back home. Usually, the gastric fire is also at work in the hope of a sumptuous prasAd more calorific than normal meals!

    Exhaustive interpretations for the verse exist. I have found the explanations of Sw. Chinmayanandaji and Sw. Dayananda Saraswathiji very enlightening. It is usually deciphered by first equating “I” with “THAT” (adah) of the shrutIs. Analogies of snake-rope, post-ghost, gold-ornaments, ocean-waves etc. are then effectively employed to explain the relation between “THAT” and “THIS” (idam) and then unravel the advaitic truth remaining hidden in the verse.

    I believe pUrNamadah can be lived every moment of our life. I am therefore making an attempt here to understand the verse with my eyes open looking at the duality of the world, a duality that spans from ants to stars and galaxies, but yet standing firmly rooted on scriptural pronouncements and affirmations.


    THE UNIVERSE

    I look out through the window. There is the unending expanse of the sky speckled with glittering stars. I close my eyes and look inside. There are scintillating thoughts, ideas, concepts and memories streaking my unending mental sky.

    Did I use the words out and in? The outside and inside of what? There is no answer to that question because I cannot set borders for the being that I am and because all that listed above, from thoughts to stars, including my awareness of myself, are the things seen, acknowledged or objectified. They are all there. That is all I know. I exist knowing them all – a self-evidence that is formlessness.

    All that are experienced and objectified constitute the universe for the purposes of this discussion. Since the day man began to think, the shape of the universe (of course, sans what he falsely considers himself to be) has been his biggest botheration. He sees a tree, he sees a mountain, he sees his wife. All of them have definite borders, precise forms. Naturally, therefore, he expects the same of the universe. It should have a form. He should know its limits.

    He thus began theorizing. The basic assumption that went unquestioned in his pondering was his ‘taken for granted’ separate identity (from the object of study, i.e. the universe) as the theoretician existing within and bounded by the outer limits of his skin. Thus, the universe for him remained an outside with he himself appropriating and identifying with the inside together with its perceived borders!

    Naturally, due to this separation, he visualized the universe as an object born in a Big Bang that occurred several billion years ago or as something that has always been existent in a steady state. Whatever these theories, they left several questions unanswered and gave rise to several other intractable conundrums. If the universe originated in a Big Bang, what was it that ‘banged’ and where did it exist? What was the ‘before’ of the Bang like? If the universe is still expanding after the Bang, where is it expanding in and to? Bang or steady state, where are its outer limits and what lies beyond them?

    Some argued the primordial atom that banged big existed in a meta-universe. That raised unanswerable questions about the origin and limits of that meta-universe. An added problem when the one in hand was already begging answers! Others thought that time and space began with the Bang? But how could there be the existence of the something that banged without time and space? That was ridiculous.

    As no satisfactory answers emerged, the spiritually inclined among the theoreticians threw their hands up and exclaimed in exasperation: “The universe is infinite.” They were then closer to the truth than ever before. But, there was opposition as some others swore that the universe was finite – as finite as an apple-pie. They brought in evidence like Olber’s Paradox to support their contention. The pity was that finitude was too familiar for their scientific minds to think in the opposite direction of utter freedom. In fact, they were wary that a no man’s land lay in the opposite way, a wilderness where profound-looking philosophers and theologians wandered aimlessly, to navigate which there were no frames of reference available to them. And the problem was that they were vainly trying to impose finitude on the universe as that is the only way they were scientifically comfortable.

    As finite models fell far short of offering satisfactory answers, some of them had argued that the universe, as it spanned countless light-years, couldn’t be looked at simply from the Euclidian angle. The space-time continuum was brought in with gravitational bending of space. Others had speculated additional dimensions forgetting that that could give rise to the possibility of countless dimensions. An unending multiplicity of universes one within the other didn’t matter to them as long as they thought they were really researching. Actually, they were staring in the face of the infinite but vehemently refusing to acknowledge it in the vain hope of finding salvation in finitude. Succumbing to ‘uncertainty’, they thought, was more desirable than acknowledging the infinitude of the really infinite!

    Whatever theories or mathematical equations the human mind cooks up, the questions that unendingly beg answers will remain the ‘before’, ‘after’ and ‘beyond’ of the universe. There is no hope of salvation without undoing these three that emanate from space and time in whose prison all empirical thinking is condemned to languish. The only solution, therefore, is to consider all creation, objectified both ‘inside’ and ‘outside’ us, as one single universe and understand it as infinite – an infinity in relation to which time and space have no meaning.

    To any enquiring mind, this infinitude of the universe should be as evident as broad daylight. The universe that I am trying to limit by being strictly empirical is in fact limitless. It is the infinite or infinity!


    THE INFINITE OR INFINITY

    Infinite and infinity are perhaps the most misunderstood words in English language. Our dictionaries suggest that infinite is the antonym of finite and infinitesimal. Some people see it as the opposite end of zero. Philosophically, that is our undoing.

    Mathematics has made things worse. There was this mathematics teacher of mine in high school who was in the habit of showing off his knowledge. While on an uncalled for digression into mathematical infinity, he asked the class to answer the question of infinity divided by infinity. The brightest among us said one. Asked why, he explained that a number divided by the same number is always one. He was applauded. I had a doubt. I mustered enough courage to point out that there simply couldn’t be two infinities for the division to be performed. The teacher chided me and dubbed me an idiot trying to be smart!

    Many decades have passed since then with me remaining an idiot and the world very intelligent. Else, how can we explain the way infinity continues to bother our finest minds. Type out the word ‘infinity’ in a Google search. You will see what I mean. Or, try this one: http://www.galactic-guide.com/articles/8R69.html for some fun.

    With our vEdAntic knowledge, let us try to find out what the Infinite or Infinity is not or has not:

    Infinity is unending. It never therefore began.
    Infinity being boundless, it cannot have an outside. There is therefore no question of a second infinity. It is, therefore, one without a second.
    Infinity therefore has no antonyms.
    When there is no outside, no inside is warranted. So, infinity is without parts or contents.
    When there are no parts, no separation is generated. Thus, infinity is spacelessness.
    As space and time go hand in hand, infinity is timelessness too.
    Infinity is thus fullness or completeness; nothing is there to add to it; nothing can be taken out from it; no outside agency can exist that can do the addition or subtraction!
    Infinity alone remains.


    VEDANTA

    But, all this is contrary to my experience. I see the universe as composed of many different things like galaxies, stars, planets, living beings, the unknowns etc. etc. They are all separate. Then, there is me theorizing about the universe standing aside and altogether separate from it! Thus, the universe and me are mutually limiting.

    VedAnta comes to our rescue here. It says that the experience of separation is an error and the multiplicity or duality generated thereby is non-real. The different entities objectified, including the limited me with all my internalizations, are miTyA. The seeming reality of duality is thus negated.

    In contrast, mathematics, the first systematic language of ignorance, wants infinity to serve it as its house-maid while it does book-keeping for miTyA – the non-reality of finitude!

    Experience connotes duality – an experiencer and experienced. The fullness or completeness called infinity doesn’t brook two or more. My sense of having a separate existence from the universe as its experiencer should, therefore, be an error that needs correction. If the outsideless and partless infinitude of the universe is granted, then my separation ends. I am then the universe and the universe is me. Experience of duality is thus understood as non-real, miTyA, an appearance. Then, my false conclusion that I am different from the universe or the universe is different from me stands corrected.


    THE PURNAMADAH VERSE

    Thus, in the pUrNamadah verse, idam (meaning THIS) stands for this one-without-a-second universe [idam sarvam (all this) or idam viswam (this world)]. I am IT.

    Adah means THAT. What THAT? The THAT of the mahAvAkYa tat twam asi (That Thou art). “Thou” corresponds to the ‘I” of the other mahAvAkya “AhAM BrahmAsmi” (I am Brahman). Thus, THAT means the one-without-a-second Brahman of vEdAnta which is ME!

    Brahman and the infinitude called the universe are thus identified as one and the same. The universe, which appears to encompass within itself the experiencing limited me and all the diverse experienced phenomena as separate entities and thereby imposes limitations on itself, is in fact the one-without-a-second *partless*, *indivisible* fullness called Brahman!

    THIS IS THAT I AM!

    Thus, this universe is completeness. The Brahman of vEdanta that is me is completeness. The apparent universe of duality, where the limited I see limited things, rises (udacyatE) from Brahman or me. The rising is only an appearance – miTyA, because completeness is indivisible. It is like a city reflected in a mirror (viswam darpaNadrishyamAna nagarI… of DakshiAmUrtyashTakam).

    The verse continues to say: Taking away fullness from fullness or adding fullness to fullness, fullness alone remains. Take away this universe (of experienced forms, of appearance) from me (Brahman), I still remain fullness – This is what happens when I sleep every night! Bring back the universe in the morning when I awake – Even then I alone remain fullness in spite of the seeming appearances. Thus, nothing can be removed from “This is that I am”. Neither can anything be added. Thus, “this-is-that-I am” is an imperishable fullness that always remains.

    All standard interpretations understand AdAya as both additive and subtractive. The word with its opposing meanings, therefore, fits the context perfectly as it emphasizes the impossibility of enhancing or reducing the already full fullness. Nothing can be added to fullness. Nothing can be removed from fullness. It also seems to laugh out aloud at the finitudinal naivety of mathematics’ attempts to add/subtract infinity to/from infinity!

    Thus, I am not apart from the universe. Neither am I a part of it. I am it. Thus, the *sense* of seeing (experiencing) as seer (experiencer) apart from the seen (experienced) is the nature of my ignorance. When this is realized and the false *sense* loses grip, seeing ‘stops’ to spontaneously become being. The universe will then not be seen. Nay, the appearing universe then resolves into the erstwhile seer’s or experiencer’s total being – infiniteness, fullness and completeness. He begins to ‘heave’ with the whole universe in and as his being like Lord DakshiNAmUrti – an ocean of fullness. The waves then are an apparence that resolves in the depths of his silence. Thus, what is negated (nEti, nEti) is the appearance and not the infinitude called the universe. Negating that infinitude is tantamount to negating me!

    The infinitude of the universe is the anirvacanIya (indefinable) that we discuss here frequently. It is ineffable only as long as we stand apart totally confounded and scratch our heads in awe. When pUrNamadah is properly understood, no anirvacanIya remains. What is there indefinable in my knowledge of myself? In the silence that I am, my pUrNa nature is crystal-clear to me. Indefinability arises only when I try to communicate with others. Well, then I am apUrNa by creating duality and playing with miTyA, as I am doing now!


    WHAT HAPPENS TO THE WORLD IN FULLNESS?

    Even when my *sense* of separation is understood and acknowledged as an error, the world doesn’t simply disappear as one would expect. In nirvikalpa samAdhi, which I haven’t experienced, it is said that the world vanishes. I cannot go into that. Nevertheless, it would help noting that whoever testified so had come out to the external world of duality to say so! Perhaps, in samAdhi, the samAdhist’s apparent separation from the world coalesces into his fullness with time and space undone. He thus becomes totally and experientially convinced of the non-real nature of what he ‘sees’ when he is not in samAdhi. However, I can’t help repeating Swami Dayananda Saraswatiji’s very profound and enlightening observation in this context:

    QUOTE

    A fullness dependent on experience grants reality to duality. To enjoy such a fullness one engages in various practices seeking the release of nirvikalpa-samAdhi, or one courts moments of great joy. Courting the experience of nonduality is based on fear of the experience of duality. Duality is seen as something from which one must escape. But escape by means of experience is false freedom. You, the limited being, and this world, which limits you, are always waiting when the experience is over.

    UNQUOTE

    Let the mountains, rivers, stars, and all the beings therefore remain as they are. What does it matter? If I am fullness, for which shruti is my guarantee, the mountain cannot be outside me or other than me. Therefore, the mountain is me. Thus, the river is me, the star is me, everything is me. I am the fullness that pervades all of them. They are not parts of me or in me (Ref: Bhagwad GItA – 9th Chapter), because as fullness I can’t have parts or contents. They are all verily me! When I am ‘looking’ at them, I am ‘face to face’ with infinity – the reality that I am!

    Thus the pUrNamadah verse has all vEdanta encapsulated in it!

    The deluded and limited me is just an appearance like all the rest of the things in this perceived universe. They are just non-real (miTyA) superimpositions on the reality that I am. Take them away or bring them back – the fullness that I am remains unaltered and undiminished, whether the seeming me is awake, asleep or dead!

    Thus we sing:

    Om pUrNamadah pUrNamidam
    pUrNAt pUrNamudacyatE
    pUrNasya pUrNamAdAya
    pUrNamEvAvashiSyatE

    Om shAntih, shAntih, shAntihi

    [Completeness is that, completeness is this,
    from completeness, completeness comes forth.
    Completeness from completeness taken away,
    completeness to completeness added,
    completeness alone remains.
    Peace, peace, peace!]

    (Translation of the verse from Sw. Dayanandaji’s interpretation)

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Sweets....Vegitaian ??? !!!

Beasts in my belfry / Maneka Gandhi

In India, by law, every food item has to have a green doton it, if it is vegetarian - and a maroon dot, if it is non-vegetarian. If a manufacturer is found to be cheating by mislabelling his product, the sentence is many years in jail.

So, how have the mithai (sweets) people not been arrested so far? Milk has been treated as vegetarian to appease the powerful dairy lobby, but the silver foil or 'varakh' on each mithai cannot by any stretch of
imagination be considered vegetarian.

'Beauty Without Cruelty', aPune-based NGO that investigates into product ingredients, has produced a remarkable booklet on the varakh industry.
Here is their report on how it is made.

The varakh-makers select animals at the slaughterhouse. Each animal is felt for the softness of its skin before it is killed. This means that a substantial number of goat, sheep and cattle are killed specifically for the industry. Their skins are soaked in filthy, infested vats for 12 days to dehair them. Then, workers peel away the epidermal layer, which they call jhilli, just under the top layer of the skin in a single piece. These layers are soaked for 30 minutes in another decoction to soften them and left to dry on wooden boards.

Once these are dry, the workers cut out square pieces 19 cm by 15 cm. These pieces are made into pouches called auzaar and stacked into booklets. Each booklet has a cover of thick lamb suede called khol. Thin strips of silver called alagaa are placed inside the pouches. Workers now hit the booklet with wooden mallets for three hours to beat the silver inside into the ultra-thin varakh of a thickness less than one micron called '999'. This varakh is then sent to sweet shops.

Here are the statistics that you should know. An animal's skin can make 20-25 pieces/pouches only. Each booklet has 360 pouches. One booklet is used to make 30,000 varakh pieces - less than the daily supply of a single big mithai shop.

About 12,500 animals are killed for one kg of varakh. Every year, 30,000 kg of varakh (30 tonnes) are eaten on mithai. 2.5 crore booklets are made by varakh companies that keep their slaughterhouse connection secret. But the truth is that not only is this industry killing animals furiously, much of the animal tissue that the booklet is made of remains in the varakh.

Each Jain knows in his heart that varakh is non-vegetarian. But they still use these dreadful items of mass destruction to decorate the idols of Jain tirthankars. How amazing that the idols of those that preached and practised strict non-violence to all creatures should now be covered with slaughterhouse derived silver foils. Jains are the biggest buyers of the varakh industry. Many try to bluff themselves by saying that the varakh is machine-made. 'Beauty Without Cruelty' has done a thorough investigation and found that there is not a single machine-made varakh piece in this country (or even the world).

On the web, there is one letter from a person, Jalandhr a, claiming that he has a company which has "fully automatic machines manufactured with German collaboration to beat silver pieces in between a special Indian manufactured paper in a hygienic and controlled atmosphere run round the clock by qualified Engineers and experienced R&D team". Initially, we were importing the special paper from Germany. But when I followed this up, no factory of the given name, or even address, was not found.

The production of varakh is done mainly in north India: Patna, Bhagalpur, Muzaffarpur and Gaya (which is a&n bsp;Buddhist holy centre) in Bihar; Kanpur, Meerut and Varanasi (the holy city of Hindus) in Uttar Pradesh; and Jaipur, Indore, Ahmedabad and Mumbai. The booklets come to them from the slaughterhouses of Delhi, Lucknow, Agra and Ratlam.

Not only is varakh non-vegetarian, it is also very bad for your body - whether you are vegetarian or not. The silver cannot be digested; therefore, there are no benefits from its consumption . A study done in November 2005 by the Industrial Toxicology Research Centre in Lucknow on varakh says that the silver foil available in the market has toxic and carcinogenic metals in the thin silver foil, nickel, lead, chromium and cadmium.

Over half of the analysed silver foils had lower silver purity than the 99.9 per cent purity stipulated by the prevention of food adulteration act of India. When such foil enters into the body, it releases heavy metals that can lead to cancer. The report also details the unhygienic conditions in which workers put silver in small leather bags and beat it into foil in filthy shops.

It is time we refused varakh-covered mithai, fruit or paan. If you want to send booklets to all your sweetshops, you can send a donation to Beauty Without Cruelty, 4 Prince of Wales Drive, Wanowrie, Pune-411040 (Tel: 020-26871166).

As for me, I think that this year, I will take the mithai shops to court for not labelling their products non-vegetarian, before selling them. Let us see how many of them&n bsp;go to jail, or have their business closed down. I suggest you cut out this article and show it to your local sweetshops.

Friday, January 11, 2008

For Householders

Overcome Anger

“Suppose you have a weakness of getting angry easily. Now, what you should do is this: Once you become normal again, go and sit in the family shrine room if you have one, or sit in solitude; then regret and repent your own anger and sincerely pray to your beloved deity or to Mother Nature, seeking help to get rid of it. Try to make your own mind aware of the bad outcome of anger. When you are angry with someone, you lose all your mental balance. Your discriminative power completely stops functioning. You say whatever comes into your mind and you act accordingly. You may even utter crude words at your own wife or children, or your own father or mother. Once you lose your discrimination you may even kill someone. By acting and thinking with anger you lose a lot of good energy. Become aware of this great truth, that these negative feelings will only pave the way for your own destruction, and sincerely try to put forth effort to overcome them.”
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“When you are in the midst of an upsetting situation, can you simply observe what is happening? Can you stop thinking that someone is insulting and abusing you? Can you forget that you are being treated unfairly and let go of the wish to do something about it? Don't be abusive. Don't react. Try to realise that the real problem is not what is happening, but how you are reacting to it. When you see that you are going to react negatively, at this point, pause. Stop talking. Say to your mind, 'No, don't say anything now. You will get a better opportunity to present the whole matter in a more effective way. But now you keep quiet for the time being.' During this pause, try to think of something positive, something elevating, something sweet, something that you consider unforgettable. Try to recall a pleasant event or memory. Focus all your energies, all your thoughts on that. If you can do this, you won't be bothered or angered by the ridiculous words and unbearable face of the other person.”
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“In due course, when you have learned to overcome these mildly provoking situations, you can slowly begin to test your experiment in more trying and serious situations. As you continue to practice, you will see that you are changing. And eventually, you will see that you cannot react anymore, that you can only respond. You will experience much more peace and joy in your marriage and in your family life in general. The change in your attitude and the patience that you show will also create a positive change in others.”
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“When your husband sees that you are not reacting anymore, when he realises that his anger and insults are no longer being accepted, that they are no longer affecting you, he will feel embarrassed. What happens when a warrior finds that his weapons are not powerful or effective anymore? He throws them away. Similarly, when your husband finds that his weapons, the words that he uses against you, are not hurting you anymore, he will give up and keep quiet. In addition, you will now be treating him with more love and care. This is a great gift.”
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Chant Your Mantra
“When your mind is restless, try to chant your mantra. If you seek solace in anything else, all will be lost. If you don't get peace of mind from one thing, you will look for something else. Failing that, you will again look for something else. You won't experience any peace at all. No peace will be experienced in anything. Whereas, if you remember God and chant your mantra, you will quickly become very calm and peaceful. Your mind will have the power to face any situation.”
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“Firmly fix the idea in your mind that only God is true and eternal. Chant your mantra while engaged in your work. Then there won't be any need for a special time to remember God. Your mind will always be focused on Him.”
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“The mind which is flying about in all directions should be gathered together. Then only will it become spiritually strong. The mind cannot be fixed on a single point in the beginning. It should be tuned by doing mantra japa continuously. All your attention should be only on that. Do you know what mantra japa can be compared to? In kindergarten we learn to write using a slate and to count using pearls. In this way the lessons will easily sink into the intellect. Similarly, we can get concentration through mantra japa. There are people who attained the goal merely by chanting a mantra. It is not always possible to meditate but mantra japa can be done irrespective of time or place.”
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Vasanas (Negative Tendencies)
“Family life allows us to conquer our vasanas. Don't drown in the vasanas; understand what they are and go beyond them. We will reach our goal only if we become completely detached from the vasanas. We feel satisfied after enjoying our fill of payasam, but a little later, we want twice as much. Once we understand the true nature of this yearning, the mind will not go after it. Would anyone touch the payasam if a lizard fell into it?”
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“When the vasanas pull us towards them, the mind will resist if it knows that they are not the source of real joy, and that they will only bring us sorrow. But this knowledge has to be firmly planted in the mind and intellect. Don't let your lives go to waste, children, by being slaves to your minds! Don't barter away a priceless jewel for a piece of candy. Our minds will quiet down if we stop giving as much importance to sensory pleasures as we do now.”

Monday, January 7, 2008

Proud Indian

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For those who like to drink cold water, this article is applicable to you. It is nice to have a cup of cold drink after a meal. However, the cold water will solidify the oily stuff that you have just consumed. It will slow down the digestion. Once this "sludge" reacts with the acid, it will break down and be absorbed by the intestine faster than the solid food. It will line the intestine. Very soon, this will turn into fats and lead to cancer. It is best to drink hot soup or warm water after a meal.

A serious note about heart attacks - You should know that not every heart attack symptom is going to be the left arm hurting. Be aware of intense pain in the jaw line.

You may never have the first chest pain during the course of a heart attack. Nausea and intense sweating are also common symptoms. 60% of people who have a heart attack while they are asleep do not wake up. Pain in the jaw can wake you from a sound sleep. Let's be careful and be aware. The more we know the better chance we could survive.
A cardiologist says if everyone who reads this message sends it to 10 people, you can be sure that we'll save at least one life. Read this & Send the link to a friend. It could save a life. So, please be a true friend and send this article to all your friends you care about

Thursday, January 3, 2008

Amma's New Year Message



Excerpted from Amma's 2008 New Year's Talk


Midnight, 1 January 2008 — Amritapuri
We are all very happy that another New Year is upon us," Amma said. "Happiness is good for the health of the body and the mind. Our goal is to always be happy. Everyone should always be happy and rejoicing—just like a small child. That is Amma's desire.
It was The hall was full. Around 10,000 devotees and ashramites were assembled in the hall. The hour of midnight was approaching.
Human beings are most happy in childhood. But the time considered as "childhood" is ever decreasing. Previously, one was considered a child until he was eight or nine. But today the innocence and pleasantness associated with childhood is fading faster and faster. Childhood these days is filled with seriousness and tension.
When our desires are fulfilled, when things go according to our plans, we experience happiness—but it is only temporary.
Many people celebrate the New Year by setting off fireworks or celebrating in the ballroom of a beautifully decorated five-star hotel, exchanging New Year greetings and dancing and singing fully intoxicated. A large percentage of people then return to their home or tension-filled office without retaining even the tiniest amount of happiness or peace. What then is the point of the happiness experienced while drinking or sitting at the bar of a five-star hotel? Real happiness is something that can be experienced at any time and in any place—in family life, social life, at work and in the mind. That should be our goal. To attain this, our mind should be full of love.
May this New Year fill our hearts with love and gratitude. When we express a desire and it does not get fulfilled, we start questioning life and why it has not met our expectations. We become depressed. But there is no law that all of our desires should be fulfilled.
We should understand that life gives us what we need and not necessarily what we want. It follows its own wisdom, which is often incomprehensible to our gross minds. We should learn to accept situations in life. This attitude of acceptance is the secret to happiness.
As we enter 2008, let us pray together, "O Paramatman, let there be no wars, violence or natural disasters this year. Let there be no death due to starvation or lack of medical care. Let there be no children who are unable to continue their studies due to poverty. Let the music of peace and harmony be heard everywhere. Just as we decorate our houses and surroundings with lights, let our heart remain effulgent throughout the year with love and compassion."

With amma

Amma's Darshan

Wednesday, January 2, 2008

Om Amritheshwariyai namaha!!!


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